Harmless Crushes...While in a relationship....

When you're in a relationship - harmless crushes. are they really harmless?
Hello all my loyal readers...I decided to get back to writing and I know I have been gone for while but now I'm back. Well a friend of mine was tired of my absence and I told her that I would start writing again. She even gave me a great topic to work with for this post. This ones for you Ami.

Crushes while in relationships, are they harmless? Well in my opinion crushes can be harmless and that's only if they are not acted on while in a relationship. It is human to be attracted to someone other than your significant other, its in our nature to have a certain type and sometimes we will come across someone who we might be attracted to. But while in a relationship you should always stick with what you got. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.You have to take into consideration what you would be giving up if you were to act on a crush. I do not condone cheating by any means but if you are unhappy and you feel like you and your significant other are not working out and you happen to meet someone you think may be better for you then yes act on you crush. I have had bad experiences with relationships, and in some I left my significant other for what I thought was something better. And I was completely wrong and in the end I regret leaving. Many times I think of what could have been if had I stayed like I should have. Crushes can be great for single people and they can be harmless for those of us in relationships as long as they are NOT and I repeat NOT acted on. I like having crushes it gives you more of a reason to flirt and yes for all you lovers out there flirting can be harmless as long as it remains tasteful and platonic. When you have someone that you love in your life and they love you back you should count you blessings because in this day in age love is hard to find. Crushes are harmless, if they remain crushes...period.


Peace and Love

Carrie L.