Artist: Shontelle
Song: Impossible
Album: No Gravity
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
We Lost An Angel Today 9 years ago
I just wanted to shout out Aaliyah a singer taken long before her time. We love and miss you very much...Today everyone should break out your Aaliyah albums and rock to them I got my favorite on blast One And A Million...
Monday, August 2, 2010
Songs of the Day
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Travie McCoy- Billionaire (feat. Bruno Mars)
Album- Lazarus
B.o.B- Airplanes (feat. Haley Williams of Paramore)
Album- The Adventures of Bobby Ray
Paramore- The Only Exception
Album- Brand New Eyes
Tell me what you guys think...
Peace and Love
Carrie L.
Sleeve or No Sleeve? That is the Question...
OK so today I decided to make a new move. I decided that I want to get a sleeve done. For all of my readers who have no idea what I'm talking about, I am referring to tattoo that covers my entire arm. Now I have been fascinated with tattoos for as long as I can remember. I got my first one for my 17th birthday. and I've been getting them ever since, I now have 6. But I wanted a sleeve after seeing the very sexy Kat Von D. She, not my style, has them all over her entire body. That's not exactly the route I want to take...lol. I am an artist and I consider my body a canvas. Yes I know what some of you are thinking...why? Well simply put I just want to. This post is also inspired by one of my favorite artist out right now Wiz Khalifa and one of my favorite songs of his "Ink My Whole Body". Hey I'm not worried about what it will look like when I'm 60 and hey it might look pretty fucking awesome in my opinion. So who care about tats. I've had people say things like "what about getting a job" or "your wedding pictures" or "what if a man doesn't find them attractive". I can cover my tats for jobs my husband will love them and if they are a part of my body they will show in my pictures and I haven't met a man yet that hasn't found my tats sexy and creative. So here is a question for you all of my wonderful readers, Should I or shouldn't I? And if you think I should what should I get? I'm open, and let's be creative no hearts with arrows through them or black panthers or tribal ink. Creativity is key...
Peace and Love
Carrie L.
Peace and Love
Carrie L.
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Harmless Crushes...While in a relationship....
When you're in a relationship - harmless crushes. are they really harmless?
Hello all my loyal readers...I decided to get back to writing and I know I have been gone for while but now I'm back. Well a friend of mine was tired of my absence and I told her that I would start writing again. She even gave me a great topic to work with for this post. This ones for you Ami.
Crushes while in relationships, are they harmless? Well in my opinion crushes can be harmless and that's only if they are not acted on while in a relationship. It is human to be attracted to someone other than your significant other, its in our nature to have a certain type and sometimes we will come across someone who we might be attracted to. But while in a relationship you should always stick with what you got. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.You have to take into consideration what you would be giving up if you were to act on a crush. I do not condone cheating by any means but if you are unhappy and you feel like you and your significant other are not working out and you happen to meet someone you think may be better for you then yes act on you crush. I have had bad experiences with relationships, and in some I left my significant other for what I thought was something better. And I was completely wrong and in the end I regret leaving. Many times I think of what could have been if had I stayed like I should have. Crushes can be great for single people and they can be harmless for those of us in relationships as long as they are NOT and I repeat NOT acted on. I like having crushes it gives you more of a reason to flirt and yes for all you lovers out there flirting can be harmless as long as it remains tasteful and platonic. When you have someone that you love in your life and they love you back you should count you blessings because in this day in age love is hard to find. Crushes are harmless, if they remain crushes...period.
Peace and Love
Carrie L.
Hello all my loyal readers...I decided to get back to writing and I know I have been gone for while but now I'm back. Well a friend of mine was tired of my absence and I told her that I would start writing again. She even gave me a great topic to work with for this post. This ones for you Ami.
Crushes while in relationships, are they harmless? Well in my opinion crushes can be harmless and that's only if they are not acted on while in a relationship. It is human to be attracted to someone other than your significant other, its in our nature to have a certain type and sometimes we will come across someone who we might be attracted to. But while in a relationship you should always stick with what you got. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.You have to take into consideration what you would be giving up if you were to act on a crush. I do not condone cheating by any means but if you are unhappy and you feel like you and your significant other are not working out and you happen to meet someone you think may be better for you then yes act on you crush. I have had bad experiences with relationships, and in some I left my significant other for what I thought was something better. And I was completely wrong and in the end I regret leaving. Many times I think of what could have been if had I stayed like I should have. Crushes can be great for single people and they can be harmless for those of us in relationships as long as they are NOT and I repeat NOT acted on. I like having crushes it gives you more of a reason to flirt and yes for all you lovers out there flirting can be harmless as long as it remains tasteful and platonic. When you have someone that you love in your life and they love you back you should count you blessings because in this day in age love is hard to find. Crushes are harmless, if they remain crushes...period.
Peace and Love
Carrie L.
Monday, June 7, 2010
Story: Never Leave Things Unsaid
Hey readers I haven't been here in so long. I'm sorry there has been alot of things coming and going in my life. But I'm going be real with y'all I miss writing it keeps me sane in my world of chaos.
Today's post is going to be a story about a girl named Cai and her road to self destruction. Cai has been with this dude for almost a year off and on and she really loves him very much. She, in this relationship, has been the one not giving as much to him as he has to her. She struggled to remain the person he put on this pedestal. She wanted to give him all of her and just couldn't. She never cheated or went outside of their relationship until, one night she went out to a club with friends and had a little too much to drink and ended up getting a dudes number. At first it was innocent and she didn't intend on using the number, what she had forgotten was she had given the dude her number as well. Later he texts her after not hearing from her in a week. They texts back and forth for a while but nothing that wasn't only friendly. Until one day her man ended up finding the text messages in her phone and he ended breaking up with her for lack of trust. Although broken up they still continued to sleep with each other and hang together. Couple months down the road she started to hang out with the dude from the club who shes ended up sleeping with as well. She saw no harm in doing it mainly because she and her man were still broken up. Her man kept telling her he loved her and apologized for going through her phone, and told her that he wanted to get back together. But when he got drunk he would argue with Cai about not wanting to be him. She tells him that she needs time to find herself and get her life together before she could completely give her all to him. But she knew that in her heart he was the only one for her. In her mind he was priority and she would never be with anyone but him. Her mistake lied with the fact she didn't tell her man about the other dude she was seeing. She wanted to tell him but she found it hard to say anything to him because she was scared of losing him altogether. Her friend told her that no matter what trust is the best policy and how much could it hurt if the two of them weren't together anyway. She said still maybe its something he doesn't need to know. Her friend's questioned her. What will you do if he finds out? You already know he has his ways of finding things out. What if he goes through your phone again? She says she'll be careful, her friend said just tell him. She finally agrees to tell him after much debate. One day she woke up to find text messages from him telling her he can't do what they were doing with her anymore. Perplexed she calls him so they can talk. They begin arguing back and forth, until she finally admits to him what was going on. All he said was that he knew for a while and all he wanted was her honesty, her argument was that she was afraid to tell him because she didnt want him to leave her. Mind you Cai is fragile minded things affect her alot harder than they do most people. Her man is done and need to get back to work and hangs up the phone he tells her he will call her when he gets off work. Cai takes this as he's not going to call and that he is in fact done with her. In his mind he's going to talk with her more about later on he loves her and would do anything for her all he was asking for was for her to be honest he didn't care if she was doing her they weren't together he only asked that she tell him. Meanwhile Cai is distraught she turns off her phone leaves it in the house and leaves to go for a drive. She needed some air. Cai never made it home that night. Everyone begins calling around looking for her. They walk around her neighborhood looking for her they check all her favorite spots to blow off steam and theres no sign of her. Mike (her man) is starting to worry its been several hours since their argument and hes beginning to think something has happened to her. Finally they issue a missing persons report with the police. Days past and there was still no sign of Cai until one day a worker found her car sitting by the lake. the worker realized someone was sitting inside the car looked to be to him like they were sleeping. he knocked on the window only to find that this person wasn't sleepng they were dead. Cai was inside car huntched the wheel with a gunshot wound to the temple. She had killed herself inside her car with her grandfathers revolver. She was 22 years old.
Moral of the story, always tell the truth and never leave things unsaid. You never know when you may never get the chance to say everything you wanted to.
Peace and Love
Carrie L.
Today's post is going to be a story about a girl named Cai and her road to self destruction. Cai has been with this dude for almost a year off and on and she really loves him very much. She, in this relationship, has been the one not giving as much to him as he has to her. She struggled to remain the person he put on this pedestal. She wanted to give him all of her and just couldn't. She never cheated or went outside of their relationship until, one night she went out to a club with friends and had a little too much to drink and ended up getting a dudes number. At first it was innocent and she didn't intend on using the number, what she had forgotten was she had given the dude her number as well. Later he texts her after not hearing from her in a week. They texts back and forth for a while but nothing that wasn't only friendly. Until one day her man ended up finding the text messages in her phone and he ended breaking up with her for lack of trust. Although broken up they still continued to sleep with each other and hang together. Couple months down the road she started to hang out with the dude from the club who shes ended up sleeping with as well. She saw no harm in doing it mainly because she and her man were still broken up. Her man kept telling her he loved her and apologized for going through her phone, and told her that he wanted to get back together. But when he got drunk he would argue with Cai about not wanting to be him. She tells him that she needs time to find herself and get her life together before she could completely give her all to him. But she knew that in her heart he was the only one for her. In her mind he was priority and she would never be with anyone but him. Her mistake lied with the fact she didn't tell her man about the other dude she was seeing. She wanted to tell him but she found it hard to say anything to him because she was scared of losing him altogether. Her friend told her that no matter what trust is the best policy and how much could it hurt if the two of them weren't together anyway. She said still maybe its something he doesn't need to know. Her friend's questioned her. What will you do if he finds out? You already know he has his ways of finding things out. What if he goes through your phone again? She says she'll be careful, her friend said just tell him. She finally agrees to tell him after much debate. One day she woke up to find text messages from him telling her he can't do what they were doing with her anymore. Perplexed she calls him so they can talk. They begin arguing back and forth, until she finally admits to him what was going on. All he said was that he knew for a while and all he wanted was her honesty, her argument was that she was afraid to tell him because she didnt want him to leave her. Mind you Cai is fragile minded things affect her alot harder than they do most people. Her man is done and need to get back to work and hangs up the phone he tells her he will call her when he gets off work. Cai takes this as he's not going to call and that he is in fact done with her. In his mind he's going to talk with her more about later on he loves her and would do anything for her all he was asking for was for her to be honest he didn't care if she was doing her they weren't together he only asked that she tell him. Meanwhile Cai is distraught she turns off her phone leaves it in the house and leaves to go for a drive. She needed some air. Cai never made it home that night. Everyone begins calling around looking for her. They walk around her neighborhood looking for her they check all her favorite spots to blow off steam and theres no sign of her. Mike (her man) is starting to worry its been several hours since their argument and hes beginning to think something has happened to her. Finally they issue a missing persons report with the police. Days past and there was still no sign of Cai until one day a worker found her car sitting by the lake. the worker realized someone was sitting inside the car looked to be to him like they were sleeping. he knocked on the window only to find that this person wasn't sleepng they were dead. Cai was inside car huntched the wheel with a gunshot wound to the temple. She had killed herself inside her car with her grandfathers revolver. She was 22 years old.
Moral of the story, always tell the truth and never leave things unsaid. You never know when you may never get the chance to say everything you wanted to.
Peace and Love
Carrie L.
Monday, April 12, 2010
B.I.T.C.H.
Bitch...what does this word mean to you? Is it acceptable or disrespectful? Lately I have been observing men in a way that I haven't in the past. I have observed that some, not all, men believe that disrespect gets the pussy. I have in the past had a male to disrespect me and being young and naive I would tend to settle for things that you usually wouldn't because you think that you can't find something better. Let me tell that there are men who will go out of their way to make sure that you are treated like a lady. Now let's be honest I have only been able to find and catch only two and in the end I was the one who messed things up. Either I was afraid to let them in or I didn't know I was ready to love. I am young and I have my flaws but that doesn't mean that disrespecting me is something that I deserve. Yes some may say that we as women posses the "power of the pussy" and that is true but not all men are the types to be controlled by that. Reason being that they can get pussy anywhere they please. As a woman who respects myself I have found that pussy only has as much power as you think it has. If you combine respect for self and pussy power you cant lose. You also have remain who you are when you decide to start a relationship with someone. Relationships only work if you and that other person are on the same page. You can't have success in any relationship where the two of you are in different stages. As a human being we all have our flaws and there is always room to grow. Growth is progress. But if there is one thing I can not stand and will not tolerate is the disrepect that us women are faced with today. We have become bitches and hoes instead of queens and wives, and it is our fault. People will only treat you the way you let them. If you let your man call you a bitch or his bitch then he will continue to treat as so. But if let him know that you are not a bitch in any sense of the word he will either move on the one who will let him do that, or he will have enough respect for you that he will refrain from using that title to describe you. Being someone's down ass chick is different from being his bitch. A down chick rides or dies for her man but her man respects her because of who she is to him. When it comes to this subject lines become blured because some women believe that they mean the same thing when that is not the case. Some men may not agree with me on this, but people are entitled to their opions and let's not forget this is my fucking and blog and I honestly don't care what people think of me especially if you don't like what I have to say. Society has already laid down lables for people depending on how they live their lives and we are starting to do the same thing to ourselves. We have let words lable us when we dont need a lable. We are all humans and should be treated as such. We have to also remember to treat eachother as humans and stay with self respect especially us women...to me B.I.T.C.H. is just a word with no meaning other that female dog.
Peace & Love
Carrie L.
Peace & Love
Carrie L.
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