B.I.T.C.H.

Bitch...what does this word mean to you? Is it acceptable or disrespectful? Lately I have been observing men in a way that I haven't in the past. I have observed that some, not all, men believe that disrespect gets the pussy. I have in the past had a male to disrespect me and being young and naive I would tend to settle for things that you usually wouldn't because you think that you can't find something better. Let me tell that there are men who will go out of their way to make sure that you are treated like a lady. Now let's be honest I have only been able to find and catch only two and in the end I was the one who messed things up. Either I was afraid to let them in or I didn't know I was ready to love. I am young and I have my flaws but that doesn't mean that disrespecting me is something that I deserve. Yes some may say that we as women posses the "power of the pussy" and that is true but not all men are the types to be controlled by that. Reason being that they can get pussy anywhere they please. As a woman who respects myself I have found that pussy only has as much power as you think it has. If you combine respect for self and pussy power you cant lose. You also have remain who you are when you decide to start a relationship with someone. Relationships only work if you and that other person are on the same page. You can't have success in any relationship where the two of you are in different stages. As a human being we all have our flaws and there is always room to grow. Growth is progress. But if there is one thing I can not stand and will not tolerate is the disrepect that us women are faced with today. We have become bitches and hoes instead of queens and wives, and it is our fault. People will only treat you the way you let them. If you let your man call you a bitch or his bitch then he will continue to treat as so. But if let him know that you are not a bitch in any sense of the word he will either move on the one who will let him do that, or he will have enough respect for you that he will refrain from using that title to describe you. Being someone's down ass chick is different from being his bitch. A down chick rides or dies for her man but her man respects her because of who she is to him. When it comes to this subject lines become blured because some women believe that they mean the same thing when that is not the case. Some men may not agree with me on this, but people are entitled to their opions and let's not forget this is my fucking and blog and I honestly don't care what people think of me especially if you don't like what I have to say. Society has already laid down lables for people depending on how they live their lives and we are starting to do the same thing to ourselves. We have let words lable us when we dont need a lable. We are all humans and should be treated as such. We have to also remember to treat eachother as humans and stay with self respect especially us women...to me B.I.T.C.H. is just a word with no meaning other that female dog.

Peace & Love

Carrie L.