Friday, February 19, 2010
Why DO Men Love Bitches?
Well I know I'm kind of late and everything but I am still reading a book and have been for a year (why a year I have no clue) called Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov. The book goes on to explain why men would prefer to love a "so called" bitch rather than a "good girl". This concept I just didn't get when I first started reading the book. I understood how it was applied and I've even seen how it works. And it is right men would prefer to be with a bitch. Now Ms. Argov isn't talking about a bitch in the literal sense, but in the way a woman should act towards a relationship and how she should handle the relationship. Now after reading the first half of the book I decided to apply what I learned on a guy I was dating at the time. And to my surprise it worked! I was excited and amazed at how accurate her directions were. I hardly had to do any work. All I had to do was play my part. She said things like call him on your own time. Don't make yourself available every time he calls or wants to see you. Make sure that seeing him fits into your schedule and is convenient for you to be with him and things like that. And it got me thinking that it is a shame that us women have to play games with men to get them to behave and/or treat us right. Has truly come to treating men like children in order to get them to do right by us? I mean seriously why do we have to do that? I have two explanations. One: that men are a lot like children and the only way to keep them in check (like you do children)you have to have set of rules to keep them in line. Two: being that us women don't know any other way to be. Ms. Argov also says who the opposite of the BITCH/DREAM GIRL is, she's named the GOOD GIRL/DOORMAT. The good girl will do anything for her man or man she's dating. She will go out of her way to be with him or make him happy while she's not all that happy. For example let's say your man decides to go out with his boys to a bar, and he says he'll call you when leaves the bar. He decided wait and call you at 3 AM. You can do one of two things you can politely tell him that its too late for him to come over your house or for you to come to his, and tell him that you will see him at a later time. Or you can hop out of bed where you were fast asleep and let him come over or you hop in your car to go see him. Now which one would you do? Me naturally if I'm fast asleep I might not answer my phone even if I hear it. And I damn sure ain't getting out of the bed to go anywhere. I hardly like getting out of bed to pee let alone driving somewhere. And as for someone coming to my house at 3 AM is out of the questions and not going to happen. And that's just one of my rules don't treat me like a booty call if you don't want me to treat you like a piggy bank. I'm not at any level a gold digger, I just rather be treated with respect and in doing so you will get my respect in return. So my question to you is would you rather be BITCH or a GOOD GIRL?
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